Wednesday 23 October 2013

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

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Why Is Paradise at the Feet of Mothers?
I know I will always keep my mother close to my heart. After all she is my connection to the divine...
Taking time to reflect as I was carrying my newly born grandson Rayyan after witnessing his entering the world, I realized what a blessing I was given, not just because I was now officially a grandmother, but more because of the chances I was given to enter paradise if I respected my own mother.

I recognized the significance of women and mothers' status in Islam and how they were held in high regard, not as the stereotyped second class citizens some may wrongly portray.

Since there is this negative typecast of how Islam views women, many non-Muslims may not know that mothers specifically, and parents in general, are held in very high esteem in the faith.

 The Status of Mothers in Islam

 - Kindness to Parents in Islam

 - Paradise at Her Feet

 - Woman's Value: Is Man the Standard?

 - Paradise at the Feet of a Hateful Mother

 - Steps Towards Paradise (Suhaib Webb)

God says:

{And We have enjoined upon man, to his parents, good treatment. His mother carried him with hardship and gave birth to him with hardship and his gestation and weaning period is thirty months.

He grows until, when he reaches maturity and reaches the age of forty years, he says, "My Lord, enable me to be grateful for Your favor which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents and to work righteousness of which You will approve and make righteous for me my offspring.

Indeed, I have repented to You, and indeed, I am of the Muslims.} (Al-Ahqaf 46: 15)

In other words, the debt we owe to our mothers is magnified due to the difficult nature of pregnancy - not to mention the nurturing and attention paid to us in our infancy. Moreover, we must treat our mothers in a manner befitting their exalted position - and, again, revere the wombs that bore us.

Contrary to what some may believe regarding women in Islam, we are commanded to treat women with kindness, and are ordered to respect and obey our parents with specific emphasis and preference given to the mother. Indeed Prophet Muhammad highlighted the significance and standing of women in Islam in his last sermon, where he cited:

"Do treat your women well and be kind to them, for they are your partners and committed helpers." (Authenticated by Al-Albani)

Islam is the best reminder of any mother's presence with the daily encouragement from the Quran and the living example of Prophet Muhammad.  While he never saw his father because he died before his birth and he lost his mother when he was six years old, Muhammad (peace be upon him), understood the importance of one’s parents, especially the mother. He narrates:
"Do good to and serve your mother, then your mother, then your mother, then your father, then the near relatives and then those who come after them." (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

The privileged reiterated status of the mother here, in Islam, is differing to the endless articles on 'Women in Islam' which regrettably tend to collapse the status of women and the reverence for mothers in Islam.

Mothers: Only One Day?

we must always feel a deep appreciation for our mothers, not just when people celebrate Mother's Day
With Mother's Day approaching here, in the Middle East, and in a few more weeks in the West, we may be grateful for the occasion to take the chance and honor motherhood. However this should be done on a daily basis and not just once a year.

Motherhood is not merely defined by the bearing and raising of children; but is rather a statement regarding the divine nature of woman and her position in Islam. We are taught that we must always feel a deep appreciation for our mothers, not just when people celebrate Mother's Day but every day. Prophet Muhammad says in his famous narration:

"Paradise lies at the feet of mothers." (Ahmad)

What can be greater evidence of honoring women than this?

Islam has effectively placed the ultimate reward for human beings in their devotion to their mothers.

Abdullah ibn Abbas, a companion of the Prophet and a great scholar of Islam, considered the kind treatment of one's mother to be the best deed for strengthening or rectifying one's relation with God. He relays:

"I know of no other deed that brings people closer to God than kind treatment and respect towards one's mother."
The Best Reminders

All the verses and hadiths on mothers demonstrate the importance of this figure in Islam. They also show that the mother is accorded a higher honor than even the father because of all the responsibilities she has towards her child indicating again the impact of women and mothers in Islam.
"You are the kindest person to your mother, yet we have never seen you eating with her...?"
I was truly humbled on reading about Zayn Al-Abidin, the great grandson of Prophet Muhammad and also a renowned scholar, who used to treat his mother with so much kindness and love.

He was asked once:

"You are the kindest person to your mother, yet we have never seen you eating with her from the same dish?"

He replied:

"I fear that my hand would take what her eyes have already seen in the dish, and then I would be disobeying her."

The Prophet underscored that sons and daughters must honor their mothers, and that the biggest debt they owe is the one to their mother for raising them. He ordered us to respect and fully accept the caretaking of our aging parents without considering it a burden, that of course if they are living.

What if our mothers are no longer among us? Do our duties towards them end?

Prophet Muhammad has advised us to perform good deeds in the name of our parents, so that the reward goes to the soul of the dead parent.

Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet said:

"When a human being dies, all of his deeds are terminated except for three types: an ongoing charity, knowledge from which others benefit, and a righteous child who makes supplications for him." (Muslim)

In this, we may ascertain that it's never too late to repay our parents and mother in particular if they have passed away. We are given a second chance.

For me, Islam is the best reminder of my mother's presence on a personal basis and her significance to Islam on a general basis. With the daily encouragement mentioned above I know I will always keep my mother close to my heart. After all she is my connection to the divine and I am truly grateful for the occasion to reflect on that.

Each of us should appreciate what we have in our mothers. They are our teachers and our role models. Every day with them is an opportunity to grow as a person. Every day away from them is an opportunity missed.

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

Islamic Quotes About Mothers Islamic Quotes In Urdu About Love In English About Life Tumblr Wallpapers In Arabic Images On Marriage About Women

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